Miss E, Tony’s previous physical therapist, left the clinic where Tony was receiving PT around the same time as that organization was pushing forward with some business model changes that I felt would lead to clinic conditions that would be less productive for Tony personally. I of course support their rights to move in whatever direction they feel works best for them as a business, but as a mom I have to make decisions about what will be most helpful for our son. There was an in-home physical therapy provider who initially took up his case but then needed to quit for personal reasons a couple weeks later. I continued to work with Tony on the existing goals that had been established under Miss E so that he wouldn’t loose progress.
Although our DDD support services coordinator was trying to help us find a replacement for nearly a year, we remained unsuccessful until late August of 2020. I know that every therapist has a comfort zone for what they want to work with, and the first few sessions with Tony are often the hardest, so I was nervous as always but hoping this would be a good fit for Tony and for Justine. The first day she was working with him there were a couple of more sustained self-harming breaks, lots of fleeing, hiding in the closet, no desire to interact with her, and he broke the half bathroom door because he was so emotional he wasn’t processing my words of caution as he was trying to close the door while a temporary swing set up was hanging in that space.
I told her at the front door as she was leaving that first day that if she could just hang on through the first two/three weeks, he’d get much easier to work with once he got used to her and I hoped desperately that she’d believe me. By week three things were much less dramatic (he flashes many smiles for her now, is much more cooperative, and he’s only had one very brief episode of self-harming in all the months that followed those first two weeks) and we are so very grateful that she was willing to give our little man and our family that chance.
Most of Justine’s work with Tony has been in-person in our home. Because we are in a pandemic though, there are times where we will do a telehealth session. If another provider who works with our family had an unmasked exposure with a person who ended up being COVID positive, we go into quarantine until testing results are available. Although we are working on Tony wearing a mask in-home while working with providers, he is unable to tolerate it for full sessions yet (some of these sessions are multiple hours in length depending on the therapy type). So even though everyone else is wearing a mask during the entirety of therapy sessions, Tony is not and transmitting infections to our family is still theoretically possible through him as closely as he works with each therapist.
The two goals we are working on actively with Tony involve improving his upper body strength (the ultimate goal with this is for him to be able to support himself on his elbows for three minutes with only his chest elevated slightly off the ground) and walking down the stairs with an alternating gate. Both goals we have needed to do some skill chaining and some modifications to help him work towards the desired end goals. For upper body he needed a bolster initially, and we did work stepping on and in between buckets initially to help him establish the correct walking pattern for the stairs. While the buckets were previously purchased by me some time ago, I did need to buy a bolster for this, and both of those modifications worked fabulously with a bit of coaching for Tony and were recommended by Justine.
The rest of the post is going to be picture galleries with brief comments on what is happening, some of the things we observe in session, and what is being done to help him reach his goals. Once he has completed one of these goals, we will be moving on to another physical therapy target. The pictures are carefully framed or edited in a way that you can see what is happening but not much else because one of the things we have seen regression on during the pandemic is Tony’s willingness to keep anything but his underwear on in-home. Our son has a history of intense tactile defensiveness (which means his skin nerves feel sensory input much more strongly than someone with a typically functioning nervous system and even gentle touches can feel painful or unpleasant), and I think this is something he felt like he needed more control over in the face of so many pandemic related changes that were completely outside of his control. With everything that is going on, I am so glad though that for Tony there is finally once again PT.
Upper Body and Core Strength Work
Buckets and Balance Beam Work
Stair Work
A Few Other Kinks We Work Through