Tag: sleeping difficulties
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When Stress & Self-Care Rain Down
I have lived somewhere in this metropolis for 29 of the past 31 years, split into two periods of time. I don’t ever recall a time where the rain poured with such steady thickness for so many hours as it did last Sunday, but I had chosen to ignore to the flash flood warning messages…
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Medication Pinball
More than three years ago, we walked out of our son’s developmental pediatrician’s office, where his “…extreme hyperactivity and impulsivity…” (Dr. D’s diagnostic report, page 5) led to a diagnosis of combined type ADHD. Medication was recommended, because his symptoms were “…causing significant functional impairments in all aspects…” (page 5) of his life. Since then,…
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Hannah’s Gift & Gallery
As I am typing this, it is 1247 AM MST. Tony has been awake since 1123 PM. So I’m writing this on three hours of sleep. The last two nights before this one, he woke up at 206 AM and 156 AM…and didn’t go back to sleep. We talked a fair bit about this last…
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Sleep Band-aid
Simplicity and I have a very complicated relationship. Sometimes I can be comfortably entwined with something that is stripped down, and others I feel that all of the details of a particular situation are demanding an acknowledgment from me with equal force. Sometimes the way I write about our experiences is just a product of…
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New Year’s Mombie
Miss R is the sweetest. Our little band of public therapy rompers encounter her sometimes at one of our local Target stores. She of the fabulously sparkly scarf, brimming with kindly energy and enthusiasm, asked me January 1st, 2020 how my day was going. Only after hearing the sepulchral dustiness of my answer, and glancing…
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The Ghosts of Christmas Left Behind
A couple of nights ago, Andy removed much of our outdoors holiday light display, leaving only remnants of bush netting with lights that might discreetly pass undetected during any roadside scrutiny from the HOA until he has enough spare time to finish the job. Inside our home, three deflated stockings still grace the walls…and one…
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November Gratitude & Some Reading
To Kendra This is a note I am not even sure how to begin to write. I don’t even live with the ghost of spare time unless I am blowing off a bunch of things I need to do (and occasionally I do have to do exactly that or I would completely loose it with…
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“Can’t See the Forest for the Trees”
There is an idiom that echoes and chases after me from deeper memories: “you can’t see the forest for the trees.” Maybe there are patches of grass on a balding bit of earth, or moss-covered rocks, and birds that warble out jubilant notes as they wing through the sun-glistened air. But if the trees are…
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The Stress Will Mess You Up
The afternoon of April 20th started out calmly. Andy and Hannah had left the home earlier in the day for an overnight church daddy-daughter camping activity, packing the commotion of preparations and excitement neatly away in the car with them. I had been telling Tony that they would be sleeping out with the trees and…