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The Trouble With Hotels

In November of 2017, our family took a long-planned trip to Disneyland.  That trip, and the extensive work we did to help Tony prepare for it, is mostly a topic of a future post.  I suspected (translation: totally knew it) we could be in for a few challenging moments given his sensory differences.  However, I

Let’s Talk About Speech, Part 2

As we stroll through this second week of discussion about speech therapy for Tony, I want you to keep something very important in mind: Ms. B deserves just as much loving picture wise as every other therapist who works with Tony.  This post however, is going to be lighter in pics than some of the

Let’s Talk About Speech, Part 1

I have discovered that when people with typically verbal family members think about speech therapy, most assume that it exclusively involves the process of teaching appropriate verbal speech.  This certainly can be the case, but when an individual isn’t capable of producing vocal sounds or putting them together in ways recognizable to others, the approach

And Then, The Stuff Will Crush You

This year, I finally got everything I wanted underneath our petite living room Christmas tree- not a single gift addressed to me.  Somehow a gift for every occasion has become such a culturally ingrained tradition it is almost reflexive.  I find that people often don’t understand why my preferred present is a hug or a

Unpacking Christmas

Every year since Andy and I married, the evening of our Thanksgiving celebration we would bring out the boxes of artificial tree and holiday ornaments to unpack Christmas.  Like many families, we decorated our winter holiday times with traditions that only made a guest appearance one month out of each year.  As the severity of

All These Things Will Fail You

My very good friend Gena (who should seriously be elevated to the level of sainthood for listening to a number of “why I no longer shop at Amazon” rants over the past year) once asked me why I decided to write so many reviews during my time as one of their customers.  Nothing about my

When More Strikes: Get a Theme Song & a Plan

I can’t tell you that I have the answers to all of my problems (or yours for that matter), because that would be a lie. But I can tell you what I do to face an ever expanding siege of crises. Seriously sometimes it’s like my problems are breeding faster then cockroaches and I am

“To Diagnose or Not To Diagnose”

Hamlet was confused, but you shouldn’t be. When we were first starting our family’s diagnostic journey for Tony, I had some people express to me that I should not be seeking any sort of diagnosis for him because those labels follow a person for life. And I have been asked by some their opinions about

December Gratitude & Some Reading

To Miss Rachel, for Patience and Kindness to Our Son Rachel’s period working with our family as Tony’s occupational therapist was brief. However, she recognized something that is easy to miss when a kiddo looks a lot like everyone else on the outside but functions very differently on the inside- that our little man was

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